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Creating Healthy Revelatory Greenhouses for Children: For Families, Schools, and Churches

What could it look like for Families, Churches, and Schools to develop healthy revelatory greenhouses for children? Here are some ideas that I’m still unpacking, but eager to discuss further.

What is Holy Spirit-led Ministry?

I am writing today to explore several principles that I believe are important to apply to Holy Spirit-led ministry with children and teens (0-18s). While I often discuss prophetic ministry on this website, today I am writing about how leaders in schools and churches might create environments where young people are experiencing and exploring the spiritual gifts mentioned in 1 Corinthians 12:1-11 and Mark 16:15-18. These gifts include:

the gift of wisdom
word of knowledge
the gift of faith (can relate to Intercession)
healing
miracles
discernment of spirits
diverse tongues
interpretation of tongues
deliverance ministry

Each of these gifts should be practiced as led by God, in his right timings, context, and proportionate to what individuals’ faith (Romans 12:6).

Start with Exploration, Narrow as Needed

When it comes to understanding spiritual gifts, children and teens are bound to be curious. They will need time to observe and experience healthy practices for ministering in spiritual gifts before they are fully mature in ministry. Within schools and churches whthat value spiritual gifts, leaders should create opportunities for young people to progressively explore different gifts. When training in the gifts is led by young people’s interests, they are not prematurely tracked but partner with God to discern their own callings, which may or may not include the practice of specific spiritual gifts.

Individual Gifts are Calling-Specific

Emphasizing one gift (such as prophecy) may create pressure that can distract them from the unique ways God wants to guide them in the calling-confirmation process..

All these are empowered by one and the same Spirit, who apportions to each one individually as he wills.
1 Corinthians 12:11

Each person’s calling is unique. As young people ask questions, God will guide their discernment. Communities of faith and caring adults can be conversation partners who offer teens resources and wisdom.

An Environment of Exploring God’s Character: From Encounter to Discipleship

Ideally, adults should aim to provide a safe, biblical, emotionally healthy environment where youths and God can mutually encounter one another. In such an environment, individuals seek God for the sake of friendship. By becoming God’s friend and exploring the range of his character, God will organically begin to guide individuals. He loves relating to people of all ages, and relating to him is primary. Understanding one’s calling and having clarity in direction are byproducts of knowing him, but are not the primary pursuit. God wnts friends and not just servants, and he will share what we need to know when we need to know it. Young people need support learning from God both within communities and coacing on how to deepend intimacy with God on their own. By creating opportunities for young people to encounter God both in groups and through self-reflection, adults can teach young people how to develop friendship with God.

From a place of friendship, God will share (Psalm 25:14). God will continue to guide young believers into their particular callings and remits of influence, but will not reveal too much before it’s time. In God’s own timing, he can unpack details like. an individual’s remit, regional calling, gifts, sectors of society, etc. Ultimately, he will share when it suits him. While God can augment and expand individual’s callings later in life depending on their choices, his plans for each one are good, and every day is a fresh opportunity to be led. Within a safe community, adults can support youth to develop curiosity and endurance in exploring. whoGod is, which will inevitable help them realize who they are . This process is true for minors just as it is with college students (18-22ish) or young adults (22-30s).

It is important that adults come alongside youth without pressuring them to grow faster or rushing ahead of how the Holy Spirit is guiding their exploration process. Especially for nations who struggle with over-performance (like America), families and organizations will have to be even more mindful to actively entrust their youth to the Lord and let him lead.

More Training Needed

Once young people are starting to demonstrate an inclination towards one kind of spiritual gift or show evidence of the Holy spirit moving through them, adults should ensure that they have the right support. Generally, you will know what gifts you have by the evidence of that gift (Matthew 7:16). These gifts will flow out of right relationship with Jesus, as a fruit of knowing God. If a child starts to increasingly experience one kind of gift (ie, prophetic dreams, words of knowledge about peers, etc), they may need more support. That support may include coaching in knowing how to parse what they’re experiencing, what to share or not share, and how to communicate what they’re sensing with others. This is especially true for children as they learn to filter unhealthy or dark things they sense and cyclically seek safety and clarity from Father God.

That being said, it’s up to families and to determine when the right time to get additional training for their children. Just because a child has an aptitude for a particular kind of ministry doesn’t meant that they are developmentally ready to get more support.

Spiritual Development as Just One Part of Child Development

God values humans’ holistic wellbeing. God values children’s holistic wellbeing. He made each part of them to work in synchrony in relationship with him

Love the LORD your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your strength.
Deuteronomy 6:5

Spiritual gifts are only one part of each child’s unique composition. In order to grow in Christ, it may be more important for a child with latent spiritual gifts to develop their capacity to speak respectively to a sibling, share school supplies, or learn to not retaliate during a conflict than it is to learn about spiritual gifts Does that mean that a child who is struggling with developmental milestones or social skills should not learn to spiritualspirit gifts when they have a noticeable gift for it? No, not necessarily. Just that their learning should be proportionate to their greatest needs and what they. are ready to receive.

You, God, are my God, earnestly I seek you.
Psalm 63:1

It is best to lead children with genuine humility and awe for everything God does. When adults are hungry for more of God, their children will mirror it. As children pursue the Giver and not spiritual gift, they will fall in love.

Who among the gods is like you, LORD? Who is like you— majestic in holiness, awesome in glory, working wonders?
Exodus 15:11

All my bones will exclaim, “Who is like You, O LORD, who delivers the afflicted from the aggressor, the poor and needy from the robber?”
Psalm 35:10

The LORD is exalted over all the nations,

His glory above the heavens.

5Who is like the LORD our God,

the One enthroned on high?

6He humbles Himself to behold

the heavens and the earth.

7He raises the poor from the dust

and lifts the needy from the dump

8to seat them with nobles,

with the princes of His people.

9He settles the barren woman in her home

as a joyful mother to her children.

Hallelujah!
Psalm 113:4-9

The LORD has established His throne in heaven, and His kingdom rules over all.
Psalm 103:19

My ears had heard of You,

but now my eyes have seen You.

6Therefore I retract my words,

and I repent in dust and ashes.
Job 42:5-6

General Principles for Supporting Encounter for Youth

So then, what are some precepts that can help adults create healthy revelatory greenhouses for youth?

1. Come with Expectation

Awe, intimacy with God, and worshipful appreciation of Jesus’ beauty are learned by demonstration. When adults pursue Jesus as their first love and put him first in the middle of work and family responsibilities, children will value God. He is unconditionally worthy of our affection and adoration. Because of their age and often in spite of trauma, many children are inclined to relate to the innocence, joy, hope, and fascinating beauty of Jesus.

Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.”
Matthew 19:14

Whether you are young or old, God already wants to draw close to you. He wants to transform you in ways that touch every area of your life. If you receive him, he will invite you into lasting partnership and share himself with you on the journey. From a surrendered place of worship, the Lord will demonstrate his trustworthiness to children.

2. Let God Lead: Meet them Where they are At

In order to help children set healthy expectations for what it means to encounter God, adults must allow God to decide how he wants to move within a space. As adults, our focus should be helping children make sense of what they are experiencing and perceiving, not predetermining what we want them to know.

Lord, would you give us the humility to notice when we have put false responsibility on our young people to encounter you in a particular way? Give us the grace and humility to cede to how you want to move.

As you do not know the path of the wind, or how the body is formed in a mother’s womb, so you cannot understand the work of God, the Maker of all things.
Ecclesiastes 11:5

Regardless of the context, we must meet young people where they are at. We must acknowledge and support various entry points for youth who have a limited or extensive experience with Christianity, let alone spiritual gifts. Regardless of context, young people will have a range of ability levels based on their design, developmental stage, and calling.

Adults should celebrate all spiritual growth and be genuinely grateful for everything Jesus does within a space. “More of God” will look different for each child. As adults make room for God, he will gradually reveal different callings. Young adults and their families should enjoy the exploration process without trying to rush it or steer it into a particular form of ministry or sector of society. God has dynamic and marvelous plans for each child. If adults and children earnestly seek after Jesus as their most important thing and relationally pursue, he will route our children without striving.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
⁶in all your ways submit to him,
and he will make your paths straight.^[a]
Proverbs 3:5-6

For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.
Ephesians 2:10

Increasing intimacy with Jesus may not lead to explosive horizontal growth (as increasing membership), but deeper discipleship. Deeper discipleship requires training children and teens to self-reflect, valuing Jesus’s “Well done, Good and Faithful servant.” We must challenge our children to delight in the joy that comes with obedience, that they would most treasure being spoken well of by God.

“His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’
Matthew 25:23

3. Equip Youth to Discern

While they may be young, children’s discernment can be equally as sharp as adults.

Adults should aim to provide a safe, biblical, emotionally healthy environment where children and God can mutually encounter one another and develop friendship.

Instead of screening every threat or unethical source of media and culture, Christians should teach their children how to analyze sources for the amount of alignment they have with their family, school, or church’s values. Through open-ended conversations, children and teens can wrestle with good and evil in proportionate, developmentally-appropriate ways ways. Communities can provide the scaffolding (support) necessary to respond.

“Behold, I am sending you out as sheep in the midst of wolves, so be wise as serpents and innocent as doves.
Matthew 10:16

The Church has an opportunity to provide resources so that children can discern good and evil for themselves. This can be as simple as training youth to consider the ethical implications of media like video games: What characters are like Jesus? Which characters are least like Jesus and why? What message does this source communicate about the worth of human beings? Are there bible stories that connect to this same theme?

Through conversation and modeling engagement with the outside culture, the Church will teach children to speak knowledgeably and clearly about their values. By relying on God’s strength and their community’s support, children will become increasingly comfortable taking a posture of grace but determined holiness. Through being set apart and gracious, they will provoke others’ curiosity about the Kingdom of God.

You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.
Jeremiah 29:13

But Peter and John replied, “Judge for yourselves whether it is right in God’s sight to listen to you rather than God. 20For we cannot stop speaking about what we have seen and heard.”
Acts 4:19-20

4. Share Gifts with Your Community

What our communities experience of God may provide grace for our regions. For example, if the Holy Spirit visits a Christian School and imparts a sustained grace for healing ministry over months (or years), the leaders of that school might consider how to create safe ways to invite their surrounding community to experience God’s power to heal.

God has not created his church to be aloof and hidden, but actively engaged conversation partners among our societies.

You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot.

¹⁴“You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. ¹⁵Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. ¹⁶In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.
Matthew 5;13-14

It is up to the school or church leaders to discern how God could be inviting them to share these gifts, what boundaries to enforce, and how to ensure that young people’s focus remains on Jesus, not just the practice of ministry.

Questions to Wrestle With:

Here are some questions that church and school leaders can wrestle with as they consider what supernatural ministry could look like in their context.

When it comes to the supernatural, what does experiential learning look like?
What can community engagement? Over time, what could prophetic evangelism look like?
How can we explain encounter and Jesus’s character in accessible language for kids who don’t have much experience or bible knowledge?
How can we provide rigor/challenge to support the zeal of children who are already more hungry for God? How can we honor their gifts without making them feel isolated for being outliers?
What foundation needs laid regarding love in action? The supernatural is only as useful as it helps us love God and love others (individual, social level).
How can we honor children with disabilities as they encounter the Holy Spirit?

Families

Before enlisting the Church or Christian schools, developing revelatory spaces must start with families.

God’s Generational Faithfulness to Families

When God looks at individuals and communities, he sees their ancestors.

Know therefore that the LORD your God is God; he is the faithful God, keeping his covenant of love to a thousand generations of those who love him and keep his commandments.
Deuteronomy 7:9

God’s perception of time is different than ours. When he looks at an individual, he sees their entire family history (past and present) embodied inside of them.

But do not forget this one thing, dear friends: With the Lord a day is like a thousand years, and a thousand years are like a day
2 Peter 3:8-9

When Melchizedek met Abraham, Levi was still in the body of his ancestor.
Hebrews 7:10

God’s “eternity in a glance” perspective means that he keeps faithfulness to generations.

So God heard their groaning, and He remembered His covenant with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. And God saw the sons of Israel, and God took notice of them.
Exodus 2:25

Hope is Prophetic: Establishing a Future for the Generations

Teaching the Psalms through History: God’s Faithfulness to the Generations

Multigenerational ministry models the steadfast love of God because when you make a deep commitment to caring for a person, you also commit to loving and helping raise their children. Just like family members or close friends stay committed to one another generation after generation, supporting one another to raise their children, the Church must respect parent’s authority while taking a greater interest in the well-being of their children.

Again, this is similar to the concept of god-parenting (compadrazgo, compadres) in Mexican culture. Parenting is so hard that parents need us to commit to their kids. How much more so in our current era! When children see that we genuinely love their parents without any malice or danger, they will feel safe to trust us.

Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good.
Romans 12:9

Committed to Children’s Safety

Jesus gives us hope that the Church can be a safe place for families and children. And that families they don’t have to do it all alone.

When it comes to children’s safety (and the safety of his adult children), Jesus is not playing any games.

“If anyone causes one of these little ones—those who believe in me—to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea.”
Matthew 18:6

God has allowed denominational Church sexual abuse scandals to become increasingly exposed in the last 50 years because he is unwilling for anyone to harm his children. Seeing this much evil come to light has horrified Parents. The sense of betrayal that families feel when even one child is hurt within their regions demonstrates the amplified fracturing effect sexual perversion and abuse has on generations.

The Church must take the lead in creating communities where the weight of God’s justice and purity is tangibly embodied throughout entire organizations, least of all through comprehensive child protection policies. The felt atmosphere of God’s justice and purity creates both fear of the Lord and administrative wisdom. Organizations must have a sense of both God’s fearful weight and protective love, and develop safeguarding structures that follow from it.

From a place of safety, the Church must come alongside parents to ensure that children receive justice in their educational environments, religious communities, and society in general. The Church’s commitment to justice for the vulnerable should drive their ongoing work of child protection in society, starting with the internal transformation that must happen at home, church, and school. The Church must pioneer new educational models so that whether through public, homeschool, or Christian education, Christians remain committed to the welfare of their societies and cultures.

Churches who dismiss their responsibility to raise generations wil be out of alignment to God’s values. When older generations devalue the young through passivity or by actively dismissing them, there are side effects in later years of division and alienation.

“The kingdom of God belongs to such as these.”
Luke 18:16

Family Identity: Apostolic and Missional

In this current era, parents have the opportunity to partner with God as Apostolic Leders for their families. When parents receive a child, they receive the grace to raise them into the fullness of their calling, with the Church’s support.

I became a servant of this gospel by the gift of God’s grace given me through the working of his power.
Ephesians 3:7

Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
Ephesians 6:4

Training your children to know the Lord is an organic outworking of your relationship with God.

Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.
Deuteronomy 6:4-7

As God leads families along, he will support them in despite their inevitable human limits.

Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, “This is the way; walk in it.”
Isaiah 30:21

God gives parents the grace to become parents, and qualifies them as they go. This is the same way he qualifies all of us to minister to other people: let by little, and through experience.

For the foolishness of God is wiser than man’s wisdom, and the weakness of God is stronger than man’s strength. Brothers, consider the time of your calling: Not many of you were wise by human standards; not many were powerful; not many were of noble birth. 27But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. 28He chose the lowly and despised things of the world, and the things that are not, to nullify the things that are, 29so that no one may boast in His presence.
1 Corinthians 1:26:29

Right now, I know a parent who is raising her daughter as is when it comes to Prophetic ministry. While this little girl has an inclination towards word of knowledge, sensing, and other encounters, her parents do not idolize the supernatural. Rather, they value their daughters gifts and help her grow conversationally, as part of their family routine. In spite of their fair share of challenging moments in parenting, they are raising their children in the grace that is organically on them to hear from the Lord. They aren’t superheroes, but they don’t have to be perfect in order for God to mightily use their home.

Whether through biological family or ministry, most people in the Church will wrestle with some kind of parenting. And their struggles will feel pretty similar because parenting and leadership are spiritually intertwined. The close tie between Parenthood and Apostolic ministry is why Paul sounds so much like an aggrieved parent dealing with wayward children in his Second letter to the Corinthians.

Have you been thinking all along that we were making a defense to you? We speak before God in Christ, and all of this, beloved, is to build you up. 20For I am afraid that when I come, I may not find you as I wish, and you may not find me as you wish. I fear that there may be quarreling, jealousy, rage, rivalry, slander, gossip, arrogance, and disorder. 21I am afraid that when I come again, my God will humble me before you, and I will be grieved over many who have sinned earlier and have not repented of their acts of impurity, sexual immorality, and debauchery.
2 Corinthians 12:19-21

The basic design of the family unit is the first God-given structure created to bring forth the Kingdom of God.

God blessed them and said to them, “Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground.”
Genesis 1:28

Families can do this by supproting their children to love and imitate Jesus.

Has not the one God made you? You belong to him in body and spirit. And what does the one God seek? Godly offspring. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful to the wife of your youth.
Malachi 2:15

But families can also do this through the pure, humble, and holy influence they have on their surrounding communities.

Appoint elders in every town as I directed you— ⁶if anyone is above reproach, the husband of one wife,^[d] and his children are believers^[e] and not open to the charge of debauchery or insubordination. ⁷For an overseer,^[f] as God’s steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain, ⁸but hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined. ⁹He must hold firm to the trustworthy word as taught, so that he may be able to give instruction in sound^[g] doctrine and also to rebuke those who contradict it.
Titus 1:5-9

While harmful or unhealthy family patterns can damage communities, a family who is intentionally pursuing God can bless their entire community.

They must be silenced, since they are upsetting whole families by teaching for shameful gain what they ought not to teach.
Titus 1:11

And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.”
Acts 16:31

And after she was baptized, and her household as well, she urged us, saying, “If you have judged me to be faithful to the Lord, come to my house and stay.” And she prevailed upon us.
Acts 16:15

For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.
1 Corinthians 7:14

With God’s help, parents’ can raise their children to know Jesus’ voice on a dime, and be more sensitive to it than all other voices. Our children can be immediate in discerned obedience and brave for the Kingdom. May they be spoken well of by God! May they value his “Well done, good and faithful servant” more than our praise. May we raise them and guide them knowing that they belong more to the Lord Jesus than to us.

Families have the opportunity to create a shared Missional Identity. Parents can express their family identity through regularly reminding on another:

“You have been born into this family so that you can establish his Kingdom and invite others too. Go share what you have learned here with others.”

While being this intentional to pursue the Kingdom of God may mean there will be times where others think our children are weird, so be it. As long as their love and zeal is genuine, as long as it comes from intimacy with God and not pressure, who cares? Let them be in love! May they be unashamed of who sees it. May they be even more in love with God than their parents.

Later on in ministry, if leaders or nations complain about how much these kids love Jesus, the Church need only say, “Ask them why they love him.” As in, “Listen to them.“

When family members support one another to embody and establish the Kingdom of God in their workplaces, educational settings, friendships, marriages, and communities, people will know Jesus.

Family Identity: Hospitality

The natural outworking of a family with a Kingdom of God mission is that they will need to add more seats to their table. Like Mary, Martha and Lazarus were hospitable to Jesus, and like Paul and Silas were invited into the home of the Philippian Jailer, Christian families must be known for being generous.

Parents can challenge even shy children to make room in their hearts for individuals who are both easy and difficult to love. God created the family as a mechanism for belonging and healing. It has the same effect when biological families invite others in.

While Parents can ask God for wisdom about safety, providing hospitality gives children opportunities to navigate the brokenness of people and learn to respond to their great need in a safe environment. While the world would encourage individuals to keep their families as isolationist as possible, the Kingdom of God relies on both wisdom and hospitality to expand true belonging. By showing hospitality to the strong, the vulnerable, and the broken alike, we can teach our children not to be afraid of the world’s mess, but to pursue its wholeness.

I have known too many stories of Christian families who were motivated by fear in how they treated their communities, children’s friends, and schools. Instead of believing that God’s power is greater than individual brokenness, they alienate others. While Christian families should be deliberate in setting safe boundaries, they must constantly consult the Holy Spirit to discern which “boundaries” are actually just white-washed fear.

After considering how, where, and who to invite, Christian families must cultivate the confidence to believe that if someone comes into their home, whatever brokenness they bring with them is lesser than the power of God who dwells there. Family dwellings just as much as corporate gatherings will host the glory of the Lord. This is the mindset behind the house church model, but the Church has yet to see families that embody it with the degree of power and wholeness God is sending.

Just like times where deliverance ministers pray alongside people who are under oppression, you have got to assume that if someone comes close, they will wind up more delivered. You cannot be afraid of “catching” their demons or brokenness, the demons will want to leave when they sense the purity of the home.

Whether or not we realize it, each of us was invited to join God’s household in the exact same way.

“When you host a dinner or a banquet, do not invite your friends or brothers or relatives or rich neighbors. Otherwise, they may invite you in return, and you will be repaid. 13But when you host a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind, 14and you will be blessed. Since they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.”
Luke 14:12-13

The servant returned and reported all this to his master. Then the owner of the house became angry and said to his servant, ‘Go out quickly into the streets and alleys of the city, and bring in the poor, the crippled, the blind, and the lame.’

22‘Sir,’ the servant replied, ‘what you ordered has been done, and there is still room.’

23So the master told his servant, ‘Go out to the highways and hedges and compel them to come in, so that my house will be full. 24For I tell you, not one of those men who were invited will taste my banquet.’ ”
Luke 14:21-24

God the Father prepared a place for us, and invited us in regardless of our degree of mess. In the Spirit, we live in that place now and forever.

In My Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? 3And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and welcome you into My presence, so that you also may be where I am.
John 14:2-3

In the same way, Jesus has overcome the world.

God the Father prepared a place for us, and invited us in regardless of our degree of mess. In the Spirit, we live in that place now and forever.

In My Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? 3And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and welcome you into My presence, so that you also may be where I am.
John 14:2-3

In the same way, Jesus has overcome the world.

Partnering with God for the Rest of the Work

Once the Church has enlisted families, there are other priorities to create a healthy revelatory space for youth. All of this work has got to be empowered and led by God, as the Spirit wills.

God must show Parents how to support their kids to be who they already are.
God must guide Church leaders on how they can support their teams to work with youth.
God must empower entire Churches and Schools (Not just Youth Leaders) with the grace and specific training they need to guide children.
God must weave together international networks of like-minded organizations through relational alliances.
God must empower schools and school leaders to develop curriculum that does not idolize historical figures but allows them to be human. How can the Body of Christ learn from predecessors flaws even as we celebrate their accomplishments? What does it look like to redeem the legacy of controversial predecessors, even as God we honor them? How could this exercise teach children to honor the positive aspects of their parents while redeeming their mistakes by making better decisions?

We must actively seek God’s help to do all these things and partner with him at each step of the process.

Child Development and the Supernatural

In order to support youth at all the stages of their development, Christians must examine how the strengths of each age range support them to understand different aspects of God’s character.

Chip Wood’s book Yardsticks is a must have resource for every parent, teacher, and youth worker. In Yardsticks, Wood discusses the physical, emotional, social, and ethical quirks of each age. For example, Wood’s section on 8 year olds mentions that they are generally prone to anxiety, biting on the ends of erasers and pens, and love routines. Knowing children’s approximate developmental stage helps adults understand what parts of God’s character they may most intuitively understand. While individual differences in childhood development matter, these trends are helpful to know. For example, 8 year olds love of collecting small objects like shells or special rocks. Their love of collections may give them a unique appreciation for God the Creator, who authored of all nature. The increased incidence of performance anxiety among 8 year olds also primes them to appreciate Jehovah Shalom, “God our Peace.” Teaching kids about different aspects of God’s character as they have hunger and need of it will likely result in different manifestations of God’s power among youth, in family, church, and home. For example, 8 year olds may be trained to discern spirits quickly because of the amount that they grapple with fear.

Could 4 year olds be developmentally inclined towards word of knowledge, given how often they blurt out their thoughts without a filter?

Could 9 year olds be developmentally inclined towards mercy ministry, prophetic action, justice, and healing ministry, based on how they are led by emotions, concern for the social welfare of the group, and compassion?

What else could God do or say?

Not a Formula

However, knowing the developmental trends of children is not a formula. Ultimately, the Spirit of God will decide how he wants to meet with a group of youth, and adults must follow his leadership. Realistically, adults must first find out, “How is God already encountering these kids?” by discerning his pre-existing activity and his past history with a group of students. Helping them name these experiences and worship him for his faithfulness in the past can be a great starting place.

From there, teachers and youth workers can work with children to describe what they are sensing. By giving them language and introductory training in different supernatural gifts, children will have a grid for greater encounters as God continues to show up.

The Supernatural and Differently Abled Children

What would the Church look like if we actively honored the contributions of youth with disabilities?

How could honoring differently abled children teach youth and their churches about God who gives us all a unique measure grace for our specific vocations?

There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to one hope when you were called; 5one Lord, one faith, one baptism; 6one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.

7Now to each one of us grace has been given according to the measure of the gift of Christ. 8This is why it says:a

“When He ascended on high,

He led captives away,

and gave gifts to men.”b
Ephesians 4:4-8

On the contrary, the parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, 23and the parts we consider less honorable, we treat with greater honor. And our unpresentable parts are treated with special modesty, 24whereas our presentable parts have no such need.

But God has composed the body and has given greater honor to the parts that lacked it, 25so that there should be no division in the body, but that its members should have mutual concern for one another. 26If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it.
1 Corinthians 12:22-23

How could honoring differently abled children teach us about God’s understanding of strength and weakness?

In fact, we rejoice when we are weak but you are strong, and our prayer is for your perfection.
2 Corinthians 13:9

⁷But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. ⁸What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christ ⁹and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in^[a] Christ—the righteousness that comes from God on the basis of faith. ¹⁰I want to know Christ—yes, to know the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, ¹¹and so, somehow, attaining to the resurrection from the dead.

¹²Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already arrived at my goal, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. ¹³Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, ¹⁴I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.
Philippians 3:7-14

How can we train our children (and adults) to verbally acknowledge the contributions of differently abled children, speaking to them and not just about them?

Could it sound something like:

“_____, when I see you (action), it makes me think about how God (actions)”

“_____, when I see you (action), it makes me think about how God is (character).”

This accessible phrasing of honor may provide greater opportunities for children to dialogue with one another and with adults.

Midway through Chapter 6 of John Swinton’s “Becoming Friends with Time: Disability, Timefullness, and Gentle Discipleship, Swinton describes the story of Katie. Though Katie does not verbally communicate, God used her swaying dancing and nonverbal prayer to heal the broken ankle of her Church Youth leader.

How has undervaluing people with disabilities stopped the Church from experiencing greater miracles?

What could full inclusion of differently abled children in revelatory spaces look like?

Prophetic Ministry and Teens

Similar to the developmental stages of children, introducing teenagers to prophetic ministry could strengthen their pre-existing interest in identity development.

How does prophetic ministry intersect with teens’ strengths and insecurities?
How can leaders empower teen’s to pursue their own sense of calling?
How can leaders support their discernment in filtering prophetic words?
How could teenagers’ inclination towards justice provide opportunities to offer prophetic ministry to incarcerated teens? Could providing non-incarcerated and incarcerated teens opportunities to learn about God’s anger and express godly anger or grief be part of healing ministry? Some incarcerated teens are bound to be prophets.
How could teens and older generations develop healthy, intentionally countercultural, collaborative ministries?
How can adults support teen’s to create their own conversation maps (webs) as they communally wrestle out questions about God?
How can teens (and other prophets) create their own personal timelines, asking God to explain what he was doing at each point in their personal stories? How could God use this exercise to break off shame related to past events, wasted time, or rejection? What would it look like to support teens to come out of intimidation or fear as early as possible in their prophetic journeys?
How could teen’s be supported to write and continuously revise their own prophetic identity statement? How might personal storytelling provide them greater confidence to speak boldly when God gives them challenging words?
What does it look like for teens and children to be fully confident and fully alive in their emergent callings?

Conclusion

God still has so many ways he wants to reveal supernatural ministry to the generations. May we celebrate every good thing he teaches us in the coming years and steward it as treasure.

Jesus did many other things as well. If every one of them were written down, I suppose that even the whole world would not have room for the books that would be written.
John 21:25

Spring 2025 Seasonal Summary

From late February to mid-May this year, I yielded to a sabbatical season. After finishing my doctoral thesis in December, I emerged from the winter holidays uncomfortably aware of my need for a deeper rest. By grace, I was able to take some time off for the sake of restoration and to respond to family. Despite being grateful, accepting a 3-month waiting period was challenging. As a classroom teacher, I had used summers for rest and personal projects, but always with a clear endpoint and a new school year coming. This time, I chose to rest despite not knowing my future when it came to jobs, housing, and geography. Despite feeling a call to rest, I struggled to resist immediately launching into job searching. Choosing to honor what I was discerning about my needs required a surprising amount of faith. I had no internal schema for resting so deeply, without much structure, and towards an unknown future. The decision to yield despite these unknowns felt costly and brave.

I ultimately sensed that if God was opening up a pathway for me to rest, I should take it and trust him to meet me in the unknown. As can be imagined, God taught me some truths through this sabbatical season that I would not have learned otherwise.

Embracing a Sabbatical Season

Early in my sabbatical, the Lord highlighted the need for physical rest, solitude, and silence. He used lots of imagery of cruising and being on a boat to help me relax into a more fluid approach to life and ministry. During this time, I continued to meet with close friends and preserved most of my rhythms of life. God reminded me who he was at various points over the last 3 years, sealing and confirming much of what he has done to get me to this threshold.

Towards the middle point of my sabbatical, God started to really highlight the theme of “community”. Rather than immediately launching into new groups or relationships, I believe he wanted to start a deeper process of calling me to reflect on my values and convictions for the future. During this time, I leaned back from serving except in spaces where I already had some relationships that I felt he wanted me to strengthen. During this time, I reflected with friends on how we define meaningful spiritual practices. It was a time of God reframing the past year, calling for simplification, and helping me acknowledge and release constructs that weren’t helpful. At some point in this middle, it became a preparation for where we are going rather than a reflection on where we’ve been.

The last part of my sabbatical mostly had to do with delighting in the Lord. At that point, it felt like God had replaced fear with peace in some hidden places in my soul. I noticed that my responses to frustrating or difficult events became easy-hearted. He continued to catalyze a shift in my perspective and caused me to have the energy to address some idols. I could establish stronger routines for exercise and well-being. Having more freedom from idolatry has allowed me to begin to be more engaged in what God is doing moment by moment, more flexible, and more able to respond. Deeply pursuing delight in Seattle has become a default setting and has changed my perception of the ordinary. Instead of being inundated, it feels like I’m holding the reigns and steering towards a future I actually want. Through delight, my faith in God’s goodness is very strong, strong enough to take on the unknown. While I would have previously pushed through a season of turbulence and despite feeling unable to face the next obstacle, now I see rest and delight as meaningful tools for responding to change. I have deeper routines for life and ministry and feel like I can invest in new relationships and communities. I feel stronger. I am proud of my consistency and feel I can trust myself to discern the way forward.

Seattle, WA

Reconnecting with Family and Friends

Towards the final month of my sabbatical, I spent 3 weeks reconnecting with friends and celebrating my Doctoral Commencement in Washington, D.C.. Each location and close friendship helped me catch a glimpse of what it means to be established by God in the season that is coming.

From my elders, I began to discern what life-long learning looks like in your 60s and 70s. As I wrap up this chapter with doctoral studies, I enjoyed seeing how friends and relatives held their eagerness to learn solidly, but with more open hands. In revisiting D.C., I recognized how much more I had relaxed since living there. Through traveling and returning to Seattle, I’ve developed more range in discerning the strengths and limitations of my elders and those younger than me. It feels like I’m approaching a time of tremendous freedom to design how I want to work, who I want to work with, how I want to show up and what I want to contribute to different spaces. That degree of freedom feels intimidating, but I am trusting that just like this sabbatical season, God’s presence will fill the space and allow me to enjoy moving forward. I am aware of how God has preserved and established so much of my direction for ministry through this degree. Though it feels like the fruit isn’t visible and not many have understood my decision yet, I believe that this investment will add depth and clarity to everything I do (career/vocation) in the future.

Jacksonville, FL

Nassau, Bahamas

Pennsylvania

Washington, D.C., and Doctoral Commencement

Worship

Here is a partial snapshot of how worship music and verses helped me receive from God throughout this sabbatical process.

February “I’m Listening”, Chris McClarney

Theme: Engaged Waiting

In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength.

Isaiah 30:15

March “Firm Foundation (He Won’t)”, Chandler Moore

Theme: Jesus’ Breaking Open New Ground

The One who breaks open the way will go up before them;
they will break through the gate and go out.
Their King will pass through before them,
the Lord at their head.”

Micah 2:13

April “Simple Gifts” by Frank Ticheli, Austin Symphonic Band, Shaker hymn

Theme: Simplification

The Spirit clearly says that in later times some will abandon the faith and follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons. ²Such teachings come through hypocritical liars, whose consciences have been seared as with a hot iron. ³They forbid people to marry and order them to abstain from certain foods, which God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and who know the truth. ⁴For everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving, ⁵because it is consecrated by the word of God and prayer.

⁶If you point these things out to the brothers and sisters,^[a] you will be a good minister of Christ Jesus, nourished on the truths of the faith and of the good teaching that you have followed. ⁷Have nothing to do with godless myths and old wives’ tales; rather, train yourself to be godly. ⁸For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come. ⁹This is a trustworthy saying that deserves full acceptance. ¹⁰That is why we labor and strive, because we have put our hope in the living God, who is the Savior of all people, and especially of those who believe.

1 Timothy 4:1-10

May “Good to Me”, Audrey Assad

Theme: Spirituality of Delight

Media

Theatrical Adaption of C.S. Lewis’s The Great Divorce

Next Steps: A Season of Liminal Space

As I returned to Seattle, the Lord modeled what it means to meet him in the liminal space…the place between one thing ending and the next thing opening. I’ve returned to my non-career job and church communities, to my non-Christian friendships and daily rhythms. I’m pursuing a greater degree of consecration, receiving more revelation on the topic of “intergenerational community”, and enjoying ease in hearing God. My faith is high in God’s ways, timings, and plans for my next steps and I’m actively job searching for the next career job. But I am enjoying this in-between season. I am more interested in how God is forming me right now than in his future plans. Much like the last season, I don’t have much of a schema for what this waiting, liminal space season means. Yet I’m expecting that it will be a time of depth, joy, and encountering God.

By Fall, I hope to write a seasonal update about how God has met me in this liminal space so far. In the meantime, I will just continue to press in and let his presence lead me into the unknown.

December 2024 Monthly Summary

Transition Season

December 2024 was a time of celebration, milestones achieved, and joy!

In the middle of December, defended my doctoral thesis with my committee. I passed, and have only minor edits to submit.
I also bought a used car! As someone who hasn’t owned her own vehicle for many years, this has been a welcome change. In the future, I’m hoping to enjoy more of a balance between easier local travel and international travel, as international travel has been my priority.

In December, I became aware of the immense personal freedom to design my next season of life in Seattle. Now that my doctorate is nearly finished, I have more time and energy to invest in the quality of life I hope to have at home, at church, at work, and with friends. With help, I recognized that to reach these goals, I would need to intentionally walk through a Transition season. I surrendered my excitement about change and accepted a longer discernment process.

Instead of trying to accumulate milestones quickly, I am trying to imagine this Transition Season as something like floating on a River. I hope that by the end of 2025, I will have transitioned into this vision well. But it is still a season of being carried rather than being able to run, with new challenges each month for formation. As of today, I’m reflecting on the question, “What skills will I need to ultimately reach these goals?”

What materials will you build with?

As I reflected on defending my thesis, I kept considering Corinthians 3:10-15. This process of doctoral study feels like just one example of the kind of costly choices I sense God calling the Church into during 2025. I believe that there is fresh grace to receive further transformation if we are honest and invite Jesus into our vulnerability.

Building Wisely in 2025: Stewarding Costly Choices

Worship

Names of God

Each month, I give God a name that aligns with scripture and how he revealed himself to me that month. This month, I spent the majority of time knowing him as,

The Refiner

He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver, and he will purify the sons of Levi and refine them like gold and silver, and they will bring offerings in righteousness to the Lord.

Malachi 3:3

The crucible is for silver, and the furnace is for gold, and the Lord tests hearts.

Proverbs 17:3

But he knows the way that I take; when he has tried me, I shall come out as gold.

Job 23:10

Music

Prayer Requests

Grace to make necessary adjustments so I can stay on track for long-term goals. And to not rush the process.

Building Wisely in 2025: Stewarding Costly Choices

As I reflect on the decisions Christians must make in 2025 to stay close to Jesus, the major theme is choice.

Throughout 2022-2024, the Global Church has been in a period of cross-pollination. As the COVID-19 pandemic ushered in a new period of global change, the Lord challenged Christians to slow down and receive sonship. Surrender was a necessary part of the process, and many people chose to prioritize depth of intimacy with Jesus rather than building too quickly or in their own strength.

God is beginning to give a greater sense of clarity and specific direction to individuals who made costly choices only to feel lost in the transformation process. From 2025 until 2027, God’s challenge to those people is to stabilize what they have attained by meeting him in uncomfortable places. If individuals and communities respond to the Holy Spirit’s internal searching in 2025, they will build durable, long-term foundations for ministry. By continuing to receive Jesus’ support in humble places, these individuals and communities will be able to withstand greater storms coming in 2027 and into the 2030s.

How will you build in 2025?

Throughout the COVID-19 pandemic, Jesus has demonstrated that Christians cannot “lay any foundation other than the one already laid, which is Jesus Christ” (1 Corinthians 3:12). In 2025, Jesus is responding to individuals’ prayers for greater personal well-being, healthier communities, and insulated long-term trajectories. However, his invitation to develop these things may look different than we expected.

In 2025, Jesus will present us all with internal dissonance that, if recognized, will provide a pathway to transformation. Through external events and internal dissonance, Jesus stands knocking at the door of the heart. Like a merchant reviewing his wares, he will examine the works we have established so far and refine people’s vision for better outcomes. In his kindness, he will acknowledge the long-term impact of leaving our works as they presently are. And in his wisdom, he will offer us opportunities to exchange lesser materials for better ones. In 2025, this exchange will require meeting God with greater, costly honesty.

If anyone builds on this foundation using gold, silver, costly stones, wood, hay or straw, ¹³their work will be shown for what it is, because the Day will bring it to light. It will be revealed with fire, and the fire will test the quality of each person’s work. ¹⁴

1 Corithians 3:12-14

In 2025, Jesus is inviting individuals and leaders into a strengthening process. While this strengthening process will cause discomfort, it will lead to greater trust in God, less fear, and greater stability for life and leadership. This strengthening process is led by the internal voice of the Holy Spirit, and by timely external, sometimes unexpected events. Through internal and external provocation, Jesus is providing a context for increasing conversations about our insecurities, failures, doubts, fears, and limitations. At no point during this time will he fail to provide clarity, wisdom, and direction so that individuals can pass through their circumstances well. At no time will Jesus knock at more doors than individuals can bear. Nevertheless, his goal is to allow the Holy Spirit to occupy more of our fragile internal places. Jesus cares more about our ability to thrive in the next 5-10 years than he does our immediate comfort. As the Holy Spirit searches individuals and Jesus knocks gently at the heart, discomfort will be a common indication that God is at work. Therefore, discomfort should be acknowledged but not feared.

As individuals leave room for the Holy Spirit to speak, we will become more aware of insecurities, doubts, and fears that are still at work in us. These are the moments when we each must choose what building materials to purchase. We must choose to invite Jesus into the insecurities, the doubts, and the fears rather than pursue business as usual. In moments of fatigue, holy dissonance, and growing discernment, we must acknowledge our limitations and even see them as conduits of God’s grace. By resisting transformation, we guarantee the need to repair or even rebuild our ministries later. Straw, hay, and wood are easily gathered; they aren’t costly. They are externally available and require no deep internal work or mining process.

Yet the Kingdom of God is built only with precious materials. Its construction reflects the costly co-laboring of Christ and the Church, which will be preserved for eternity.

The angel who talked with me had a measuring rod of gold to measure the city, its gates and its walls. ¹⁶The city was laid out like a square, as long as it was wide. He measured the city with the rod and found it to be 12,000 stadia^[c] in length, and as wide and high as it is long. ¹⁷The angel measured the wall using human measurement, and it was 144 cubits^[d] thick.^[e] ¹⁸The wall was made of jasper, and the city of pure gold, as pure as glass. ¹⁹The foundations of the city walls were decorated with every kind of precious stone. The first foundation was jasper, the second sapphire, the third agate, the fourth emerald, ²⁰the fifth onyx, the sixth ruby, the seventh chrysolite, the eighth beryl, the ninth topaz, the tenth turquoise, the eleventh jacinth, and the twelfth amethyst.^[f] ²¹The twelve gates were twelve pearls, each gate made of a single pearl. The great street of the city was of gold, as pure as transparent glass.

Revelation 21:15-21

God is kind, and he wants to fulfill each and every one of his promises. Nevertheless, the degree to which we receive Jesus’ transformation in 2025 is up to each person. Jesus stands knocking at the door of the heart, but he will not force himself in. He will stand outside each door of the heart, and wait for individuals to open. In 2025, we will need to be people who move at a thoughtful, self-reflective pace to recognize and respond to Jesus’ knocking.

By opening the door to conversation, we will be transformed by God’s grace and receive gracious outcomes that cannot result from human effort. God must create these precious stones, silver, and gold inside us. Under his hands, even precious and rare materials can line the walls of our hearts. Most importantly, submitting to refinement will make us more like Jesus. In the coming years, the fruit of this transformation process will be made increasingly visible.

His body was like beryl, his face like the appearance of lightning, his eyes like flaming torches, his arms and legs like the gleam of burnished bronze, and the sound of his words like the sound of a multitude.

Daniel 10:6

Redemption and Repair

In 2025, God is opening up a pathway for individuals to receive better outcomes in their jobs, families, ministries, and personal lives than in the past. Jesus knows every failure, lapse in judgment, and sin. He has provided a pathway for better outcomes and is extending an arm of friendship. He is asking each of us to acknowledge the straw, hay, or wood in our lives so that he can help us repair what is broken. He will give us new grace to exchange these lesser materials for gold, silver, and precious stones in proportion to our honesty. Through receiving God’s grace in our places of greatest need, we testify to God’s complete acceptance of humanity in Christ Jesus. By responding to discomfort conversationally and receiving new grace, we will receive precious, durable materials for life and ministry. These materials will stabilize our current works and insulate us into the 2030s.

November 2024 Monthly Summary

Closing Season

This month, I waited on the Lord. At a time of tremendous coming change: in degree completion, geographical placement, changing employment, ministry transition, and more, I waited on the Lord. At this time of bringing seasons to a close, it is so tempting to rush and ask for clarity about what the next season looks like. I’ve never waited in 4-5+ areas of my life at once. Before Jesus encountered me this month in his joy, freedom, light yoke, and peace, I didn’t know it was possible. I know that it’s a time of preparation before new opportunities opening up in the new year. What does it look like to simply enjoy this Advent season, aware that blessings and change are inevitably rising?

In worship this month, I saw an image of a table that I had spread for Jesus with at least 5 different dishes. I invited him to eat at this table. Each of the dishes represented something that I had developed for him over the past 2-3 years. And watching him simply enjoy what had been made ready allowed me to stay present during this closing season. It made me grateful for all that he’s done, like offering a firstfruits. I feel rich in the depth of trust I have in him and the revelation of his heart for me. I’m so grateful that this foundation was strengthened at such a pivotal point in my timeline and time of current events.

Within such open space, I wait for a directional light to dawn. I’m aware that grief and joy will probably come together once clarity comes. Like a sojourner holding a lantern, I’m challenged to believe that Jesus is enough to steer me through such a large expanse.

Worship

Verses

This month, I noticed evidence of growing division in the world and Church as God continues to shake unhealthy foundations. In November, I noticed individuals resisting condemnation and choosing to engage from the Father’s heart in thought, word, and action. I also noticed that when people neglected to abide by the Father, they acted much more impulsively and became incendiary. There was generally a lack of fruit of the spirit or a recognition of the gospel in those interactions.

At this time, Christians are called to keep their eyes on Jesus, imitating his ways and resisting the flesh. I notice God continuing to insulate relationships where individuals mutually choose to resist fragmentation. He will give us the right lenses to see and serve one another rightly if we seek him. Taking time to reflect on times we still need to receive his grace will keep us from being caught in the storm. When we are willing to pause and seek him, he makes a way out of crisis and leads us towards life.

¹³For you, my brothers, were called to freedom; only do not let your freedom become an opportunity for the ^[a]sinful nature (worldliness, selfishness), but through ^[b]love serve and seek the best for one another. ¹⁴For the whole Law [concerning human relationships] is fulfilled in one precept, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself [that is, you shall have an unselfish concern for others and do things for their benefit].” ¹⁵But if you bite and devour one another [in bickering and strife], watch out that you [along with your entire fellowship] are not consumed by one another.

Galatians 5:13-15 AMP